The Happenings
Lead planner: Charlotte Fradet
We have a list of your amazing skills already — book your slot via the Happenings spreadsheet.
Kaleidoverse magic
The program
For four nature-soaked days, we're turning Tian's grandparents' home into a kaleidoscope of colour, music, stories, and dance.
colours mandatory · shoes optional
Guy, Tian & Cosmo invite you to make wonderful memories of love, play, and connection.
This house has held decades of memories. And before we say goodbye to it, we're filling it with you.
Come ready to play.
Come get paint on your fingers, feel the grass underfoot and love in your heart.
Colours mandatory. Shoes optional. Bring your spark.
↪ the three of us
Where it happens
Bungalow — indoors Jungalow — outdoors 01
9 July 2026
Thursday
Set up & potluck
Bring your hands and your heart. Meet and greet for all the happy campers and extra hands. We'll start with a beautiful sound ceremony and authentic-relating exercise. Then we'll need muscles (moving sound systems, hauling things) and creativity. Calling all decorators to help make the space beautiful.
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9 July 2026
Thursday
Set up & potluck
Bring your hands and your heart. Meet and greet for all the happy campers and extra hands. We'll start with a beautiful sound ceremony and authentic-relating exercise. Then we'll need muscles (moving sound systems, hauling things) and creativity. Calling all decorators to help make the space beautiful.
The schedule
- 10:00 Build the Kaleidoverse 🏡 🌿
- 13:00 Opening Ceremony with Tian and Guy 🏡
- 13:30 Authentic Relating with Jules and Jac 🏡
- 14:30 Decorate the Kaleidoverse 🏡 🌿
- 16:00 Ice Baths with Chun 🌿
- 16:00 Garden Games with Bianca and Mel 🌿
- 17:30 Potluck Dinner 🌿
- 19:30 Sound Bath with Jac 🏡
- 20:30 Wine Tasting with Jesse 🏡
- 21:30 Acroyoga Jam with Shin 🌿
- 21:30 Music Jam with Ben 🏡
Potluck rule: every one / couple / family brings something. No exceptions. Yes — even if you "can't cook" — bring something you love.
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10 July 2026
Friday
Ceremony & fire jam
This is when we hold the traditional Chinese tea ceremony, the Unwedding ceremony, and exchanging of vows. There's a special surprise after that as well — which you'll find out about on the day. We'll light the heart at sunset, then Mantravine play their amazing music for us. Followed by juicy beats from BB Queen and The Broccoli Smuggler.
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10 July 2026
Friday
Ceremony & fire jam
This is when we hold the traditional Chinese tea ceremony, the Unwedding ceremony, and exchanging of vows. There's a special surprise after that as well — which you'll find out about on the day. We'll light the heart at sunset, then Mantravine play their amazing music for us. Followed by juicy beats from BB Queen and The Broccoli Smuggler.
The schedule
- 10:00 Breathwork & Hang Drum with Chun 🌿
- 10:00 Brewtiful Coffee with Kopi Soh Zenn 🏡
- 11:00 Ice Baths with Chun 🌿
- 11:00 Yoga with Jac 🏡
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Joke-Off Open Stage with Luke, Shanti & Naia 🌿
- 13:00 Orgasmatronic Head Massages with Max 🌿
- 14:00 Durian Party with Alice, Flo, Cha & Gatsby 🌿
- 14:30 Tea Ceremony (Family) 🏡
- 16:30 Unwedding Ceremony & Vows 🌿
- 17:00 Surprise Segment #1 🌿
- 17:30 Unwedding Dinner 🌿
- 18:00 Roast and Toast Speeches, hosted by Ollie 🌿
- 19:45 Starlight Alchemy 🌿
- 20:00 Mantravine 🌿
- 22:00 House Party 🏡
For the kids: no fire for little ones — but they can play with other flow toys.
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11 July 2026
Saturday
The Festival
Magic. Music. Dancing. Performances. Food. Whatever everyone wants to bring. This day belongs to ALL of you. If you have a talent, a game, a poem, a puppet show — this is your moment. Expect performances and dancing into the night.
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11 July 2026
Saturday
The Festival
Magic. Music. Dancing. Performances. Food. Whatever everyone wants to bring. This day belongs to ALL of you. If you have a talent, a game, a poem, a puppet show — this is your moment. Expect performances and dancing into the night.
The schedule
- 10:00 Coffee Rave with Zenn, Arne, Martin & Max 🏡
- 10:00 Acroyoga Jam with Shin & Suwan 🌿
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Let's Talk About Love, hosted by Pam & Kat 🌿
- 14:00 Gringo Bingo with Thiemi and Menno 🏡
- 15:30 Sparkle Party with Flo, Cha & Max 🌿
- 17:30 BBQ Dinner 🌿
- 18:00 Pink Blossoms Beer Truck (until 21:00) 🌿
- 19:30 Surprise Segment #2 🌿
- 20:00 The Jukuleles 🌿
- 22:00 House Party 🏡
It will be loud — bring ear protection for the little ones if you have any.
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12 July 2026
Sunday
Pack up, kids day & potluck
We need all hands on deck again to pack things up. Then we play with water and bubbles out on the grass, and end with some singing and lots of hugs. A soft, sweet ending to the Kaleidoverse.
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12 July 2026
Sunday
Pack up, kids day & potluck
We need all hands on deck again to pack things up. Then we play with water and bubbles out on the grass, and end with some singing and lots of hugs. A soft, sweet ending to the Kaleidoverse.
The schedule
- 10:00 Ready, Set, Play! with Laura and Pete 🌿
- 11:00 Pickles and Tickles with Luke, Shanti & Naia 🌿
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Tear Down + Pack Up 🏡 🌿
- 17:00 Kids Parade 🌿
- 17:30 Potluck Dinner 🌿
- 19:30 Closing Ceremony with Tian and Guy 🏡
Potluck again: bring something. Eat together. Hug goodbye.
Pitch in
How can you help?
BYOB · but share
Whenever you make yourself a drink,
make an extra one for someone else.
We'll provide some beer, wine, and non-alcoholic drinks. No liquor from us — you're welcome to bring your own to stock the bar. That's the bar policy.
From Singapore
We're looking at you
- ✺ Portable karaoke machine? (YES PLEASE)
- ✺ Gas-BBQ we can borrow for the 11th
- ✺ Lights? Lasers? Disco balls? Decorative things?
- ✺ Toys for the kids' corner
- ✺ A contact for a photo booth or videographer
- ✺ Instruments?
From rest-of-world
Bring a slice of home
- ✺ Your local cheese
- ✺ Something from where you are that you want to share
- ✺ Instruments?
We especially need help with
- Looking out for the kids. There will be many little ones running around. It takes a village to raise a child — and for four days, we ARE that village.
- Decorations. Think jungle disco, sparkly and fun. Connection corners and music jam spots. Some heavy lifting required for sound and light systems.
- Bubbles. We'll have a designated bubbles zone. We need people to keep the bubbles going and top up the solution.
- Photography & videography. Still figuring out what'll work best.
- First aid. Who is trained in first aid or is a medical professional — please make yourself known.
Get more involved
Join a crew
Find your tribe and jump into the relevant WhatsApp group below.
All groups also live inside the main Kaleidoverse community.
Kids Corner
Many little ones will be running around. It takes a village — for four days we ARE that village. Come up with simple games to play with them as a group.
Keeping spaces clean
We'll have folks clearing spaces, but please do your part — don't leave trash around. Join the Cleaning Fairies.
Decorations
Lead: Suwan
Think jungle disco — sparkly and fun. Connection corners and music jam spots. Some heavy lifting for sound and light systems. Also a designated bubble zone we need help running.
Photography & video
Lead: Thiemi (photo)
Thiemi has volunteered to be lead photographer. Anyone else who'd like to join her — jump into the group. We're still figuring out videos.
Food & drinks
General group for potluck (9 + 12 July) and any other food/drink organising.
First aid
Trained in first aid or a medical professional? Please make yourself known.
Don't see your crew?
Pitch one to Tian.
We'll add it here.
↪ all welcome
Gifts & contributions
Gifts are not necessary.
Your full participation is preferred.
But if you'd like to contribute to the magic, a cash contribution would help us a lot. This is traditionally given in an angpow, or red packet. If you don't have one, a red envelope also works.
One last thing
This house is empty now. It held Tian's childhood, and now it will hold all of us before we say goodbye and hello to this new chapter of our lives. We never thought we'd ever have a wedding, but life is full of surprises — and now you're all a part of it.
So be your awesome self. Laugh with us until it hurts, cry until your snot drips out. Paint something. Sing off-key. Stack that cheese.
Let's build the Kaleidoverse together,
and fill it with beautiful memories.
See you really soon.