An unwedding festival · July 2026

Welcome to
the Kaleidoverse

For four days, we are gathering at 8 Lornie Road — a house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Worlds will collide. Bring your spark. Come ready to play.

with all our love,

Guy, Tian & Cosmo

Embroidered kaleidoscope mandala

↪ welcome inside

At a glance

Four days of gathering

↪ one big colourful pop-up village

01

9 July · Thursday

Setting up & opening

Sound ceremony. Decorations. Potluck. Hands and hearts wanted.

02

10 July · Friday

Ceremony & fire jam

Tea ceremony, vows, a surprise. Mantravine plays into the night.

03

11 July · Saturday

The Festival

Performances, dancing, food, magic. The day belongs to all of you.

04

12 July · Sunday

Pack up & goodbyes

Water. Bubbles. Singing. A soft, sweet ending.

Guy, Tian, and Cosmo laughing together on a colourful blanket

↪ that's us!

Your hosts

Guy, Tian & Cosmo

A house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Our worlds are colliding — Europe, Singapore, Australia, everywhere in between.

Come ready to play, co-create, and share what you have — your secret talents and skills, your cheese, your loudest laugh.

we can't wait. thank you for being a part of this with us!

The rules

There are only three.
Actually four.

(we made one up later)

01

Openness & curiosity

Say yes to the weird. Dance with someone new. Try the cheese you can't pronounce.

02

Fun mandatory

If you're not having fun, we're doing it wrong. Find us and we will fix this.

03

Be your most fabulous self

The cape. The glitter. The mismatched socks. An unexpected accessory. We want all of you.

04

Potluck, days 1 & 4

Everyone makes or brings something. Yes — even if you "can't cook" — get something amazing. We'll know.

FAQ

Questions you might
be having

What is an unwedding?

No, we are not separating. This is simply not a traditional wedding. But are we actually officially getting married? You'll have to come to find out. PS: You will be asked to pitch in to help and get your hands dirty.

What do I wear?

Whatever you want — but light, comfortable clothing suitable for the tropics is best. Shoes are optional. Colours, sequins, festival-style outfits and outlandish accessories are necessary.

What should I bring?

Cheese. Liquor. Anything else you want to share. Fans to stay cool. Festival-style outfits, colours, sequins, outlandish accessories.

Are children and pets welcome?

DUH. Parents, we can unite to organise babysitters in the evening. Bring an extra change of clothes and costumes for the little ones. There will be face painting (so nothing too white) and loud noises (bring ear protection).

Tian, allegedly
↪ Tian, allegedly
Will there be food?

Food will be provided on 10 and 11 July. We'll do a potluck on the 9th and 12th. We'll be ordering vegan options without allergens, but if you have a lot of allergies please bring some snacks for yourself too. Please let us know if you have a severe life-threatening allergy and bring an epipen. We'll have first aid folks around.

Ask Me Anything

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Program
Is the tea ceremony more for family?
The tea ceremony will only involve family but others are welcome to witness this.
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a.

Venue & travel

Address. MRT, bus, taxi. Camping at Lornie.

b.

The program

Day by day. How to pitch in. Volunteers.

c.

Singapore guide

A local's tips. Weather, food, laws, packing.